Rehearsal (Tentative)

Indian Summer Golf & Country Club

Wedding Day

It's time to select your meals!

The Wedding of Jing & Elijah (Ceremony & Reception)

Ceremony

Reception

For Those Who  Come After (Reception)

RSVP IS OFFICALLY CLOSED

If you have any questions, please contact jedmwedding2026@gmail.com

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Guest Meal Selection

We can't wait to celebrate with you! Please use the link below to submit your meal selections for yourself and any guests included in your party. <a href="https://forms.gle/2Yzewcfcw2sWQADD8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">THE MENU- SELECT YOUR MEAL</a> Please submit your selections by July 17, 2026. If we do not receive your meal choices by the deadline, Chicken Entrée will be selected as the default option.

GUEST ATTIRE

Can't decide what to wear? We've got you covered! Visit the <a href="https://www.jingandelijah.com/guest-attire" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Guest Attire Page</a> for examples and inspiration.

Our Wedding

A Love Rekindled
 
Our story began in the summer of 2012 at Saint Martin's University, amidst the bustle of their international summer programs. Jing was a high school junior and Elijah was in eighth grade. From that initial meeting, a friendship blossomed. Years passed, marked by continued involvement with the summer programs, and our bond only deepened.
 
College brought us even closer. We started spending more time together, reaching out to each other constantly. In 2018, our friendship evolved into our first relationship. However, the challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic led us to drift apart, and we ended our relationship in 2020. For three years, we embarked on separate journeys, using that time to learn more about ourselves individually.
 
Then, in 2023, a simple text message reconnected us. Neither of us knew that this seemingly casual exchange would rekindle the profound love we once shared. We were clear from the outset: just friends, nothing more. But the more we talked and spent time together, a new love began to form. A kiss on the forehead as we said goodbye after one of our hangouts cemented the feelings we had for each other, drawing us back into a relationship on November 4th, 2023.
 
Throughout that first year back together, we both realized we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with each other. And so, in Japan, on September 23, 2024, we got engaged, ready to write the next chapter of our story together.

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

We truly wish we could celebrate with everyone at every part of the day, but our ceremony space is limited. Some guests are invited to both the ceremony and reception, while others are invited to join us for the reception celebration. Please check your invitation for all the details. ”wherever you are, wherever you go, we will be right here waiting for you…” Jing &amp; Elijah

WEDDING DETAILS

What time should I arrive at the venue?

CEREMONY:To ensure a smooth and uninterrupted ceremony, please arrive 20-30 minutes before the ceremony begins to allow time for parking and get seated (Ceremony begins at 3pm). Kindly note that once the ceremony has begun, the doors will close and late entry will not be permitted. Guests arriving after the start time will be asked to remain in the reception area until the ceremony has finished. RECEPTION:Please allow 10–15 minutes before your planned arrival to park and get settled.Cocktail hour kicks off at 4:00 PM, and we can’t wait to cheers with you!

Where are the ceremony and reception taking place? 

We’ll go from “walk down the aisle and say our I do’s” straight through to “last call” at Indian Summer Country &amp; Golf Club. One venue, endless magic — no venue‑hopping, just non‑stop celebrating!

What is the timeline for the day (ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner)?

Ceremony — 3:00 PMCeremony guests, please arrive 30 minutes early to allow time for parking and seating. Once the ceremony begins, the venue will close the doors, and late arrivals won’t be able to enter."If you LATE, you WAIT." Cocktail Hour — 4:00 PMSip, mingle, and ease into celebration mode. Reception Doors Open — 4:30 PMMake your way in and settle into your assigned seat at your own pace. Feel free to explore the space, capture a few moments, and take in the atmosphere—there’s an energy here worth savoring. Everyone Seated — 5:30 PM Dinner Served — 6:00 PMThe celebration continues—dinner awaits!🤌 There may be slight changes to the dinner schedule as our day gets closer. Please feel free to check back here for any updates — we’ll keep this page current so you’re always in the loop!

When is the RSVP deadline?

May 30th, 2026Please email us if you have questions <a href="mailto:jedmwedding2026@gmail.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jedmwedding2026@gmail.com</a>

How do I RSVP?

Right here on our Website!Select the RSVP tab on the menu page.The primary contact is responsible for submission.

Are you having an "unplugged" ceremony?

Ceremony = phones off, hearts on. 📵 Please keep phones tucked away so our photography team can work their magic. Please remain at your seats and keep the aisle clear so our photographer can catch our grand walk back down the aisle as a newly wed couple. Thank you for being the best!

Are children invited?

Yes! Little humans are absolutely invited. For Our Ceremony Guests With Young Children:To help keep the ceremony peaceful and uninterrupted, we kindly ask for your support. For families with children under the age of six, we’ve reserved a special seating area. This space allows you to step away comfortably if needed while still having a clear view of the ceremony — perfect for wiggles, whispers, or quick breaks. Reception Details for Kids:Children ages 4–11 will have their very own kid‑friendly menu. Please be sure to include this information when you RSVP, so we can plan accordingly!

Can I bring a plus one?

Only immediate family members in your party but a plus one is welcome as long as you coordinated prior with the couple. Should your listed guest be unable to attend or their name needs updating, kindly let us know at least three weeks prior (August 3, 2026) by emailing us at jedmwedding2026@gmail.com. Please note that once your RSVP is submitted, we’re unable to add additional guests.

How do I know where to sit?

Ceremony Guests: Open seating with an exception to reserve seating for immediate family members of the bride and groom and the sponsors/godparents. To Our Guests With Young Children:In an effort to preserve the serenity and flow of our wedding ceremony, we kindly request your assistance in minimizing any potential disruptions. For guests accompanied by children under six years of age, a designated seating area has been reserved to allow you to step away comfortably if needed, while still maintaining a clear view of the ceremony. We sincerely appreciate your understanding and cooperation. Reception Guests:We will be using assigned seating to ensure families and friends can enjoy the evening together.Your table assignment will be displayed at the entrance.

Which airport is closest?

SeaTac International AirportDistance from Airport to Venue: 54 miles.Estimated Length: 50 min- 1.5 hour away from venue Looking for a Hotel? Accommodation details in the Hotel Page

Is there transportation being provided to/from the hotel?

Transportation won’t be provided , we recommend to grab an Uber or Lyft.Turn up the vibes, and meet us at the party! Indian Summer also offers on‑site parking for our guests, so you’re welcome to drive if you prefer. Just a little reminder — safety first, always — so please plan your transportation accordingly.

Where can I park? 

Indian Summer has its parking for guests.Come back here for updates!

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

Ceremony: Outdoors. Think fresh air, pretty views, and a little sunshine magic. Cocktail Hour &amp; Reception: Indoors. Come ready to sip, mingle, and dance the night away in comfort!

What is the dress code?/Is there a theme?

Dress to celebrate!Cocktail, Rustic, Semi-Formal or Daytime looks are perfect. You can incorporate black or white, just NO full monochrome black or white outfits. NO casual wear allowed. We also kindly request that guests DO NOT wear the traditional Filipino barong. Other than that, have fun with your outfit… we’re excited to see everyone looking amazing! Please refer to our Guest Attire page for examples.

What should I wear? (e.g., shoe suggestions for grass/sand)

Ceremony:The ceremony will be held outdoors on the grass, so we kindly suggest wearing shoes that won’t sink or slip — think wedges, block heels, dressy flats, or anything comfortable for a grassy stroll. Reception:The reception will be indoors, so feel free to swap into your party shoes and dance the night away!

What is the weather like this time of year? 

Expect unpredictable weather. Please check the forecast ahead of time. It can be sunny or it can be rainy, or it could be both, honestly, who know?Temperatures can ranges between 60 to 90 degrees.

Will there be food served?

You bet! We’ve got you covered from apps to dinner! Cocktail Hour:We’ll start the evening with a variety of bite‑sized treats perfect for snacking while you mingle. Drinks:A full bar will be available!It won’t be hosted all night, so feel free to bring cash or cardfor any additional beverages you’d like to enjoy. Reception Dinner:A full dinner will be served during the reception. Come ready for a delicious meal and a good time!

How do I let you know about dietary requirements?

This will be a plated dinner, so we want to make sure everyone is taken care of allergies or dietary restrictions for each guest attending. **A follow-up email will be sent 30 days prior to the event.** Your notes help us make sure every plate is safe and delicious!

Is there an open bar?

Each guest will receive one drink ticket to enjoy an alcoholic beverage or soda on us! After that, the bar will switch to non‑hosted. You’re welcome to purchase additional drinks using cash or card. Cheers to celebrating!!!!

What time should I go home? 

End time 10 PM.

Gifting Details

We&#8217;ll have QR codes available at the wedding for anyone who&#8217;d like to gift toward our date&#8209;night fund, first&#8209;home fund, honeymoon, or other future adventures. Your presence truly means the world, so please don&#8217;t feel obligated &#8212; this is simply an option for anyone who prefers it.
 
Cash App, Zelle &amp; Venmo
 
But if you prefer to bring a gift in person, we&#8217;ll be grateful either way!

Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Yes. “Our whip” (golf cart) will provide transportation services.

What safety measures will be in place? 

No firearms. No weapons.Let's not make headlines news...blakah blakah! 😏

What is the plan for "Day Two" or other weekend events?

As of right now, we have no additional events planned. Please come back for updates.

Contact Information

What if I still have questions? (Provide email/contact)Please email us <a href="mailto:jedmwedding2026@gmail.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">jedmwedding2026@gmail.com</a> or call at ‪(601) 651-7257‬.

Q + A

4460 3rd Ave SE, Lacey, WA 98503, USA(360) 491-7985Distance from Venue: 10-12 minutes(est. 5 miles) Available Dates Between: SEPTEMBER 3rd - SEPTEMBER 6th<a href="https://www.ihg.com/redirect?path=rates&amp;brandCode=EX&amp;localeCode=en&amp;regionCode=1&amp;hotelCode=LACCS&amp;checkInDate=03&amp;checkInMonthYear=082026&amp;checkOutDate=06&amp;checkOutMonthYear=082026&amp;_PMID=99801505&amp;GPC=LNO&amp;cn=no&amp;adjustMonth=false&amp;showApp=true&amp;monthIndex=00" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Jing &amp; Elijah Wedding Booking Link</a> **CUT OFF DATE FOR GROUP RATE: AUGUST 6TH, 2026** Hotel Amenities:▪️72hr Cancellation Policy and Modifying ReservationsComplimentary Hot Breakfast Buffet▪️On-Site Parking▪️Smoke Free Hotel▪️WiFi▪️Indoor Pool

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Lacey - Olympia by IHG

4301 Martin Way E, Olympia, WA 98516, USA(360) 459-5000Distance from Venue: 12-14 minutes(est. 5 miles) Jing &amp; Elijah Wedding Group Available Dates Between:SEPTEMBER 3rd - SEPTEMBER 6th<a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/rooms/?ctyhocn=LACOLHX&amp;arrivalDate=2026-09-03&amp;departureDate=2026-09-06&amp;groupCode=EJW&amp;room1NumAdults=1&amp;displayCurrency=USD&amp;aarpRate=" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click to Book Your Room! </a> **CUT OFF DATE FOR GROUP RATE: AUGUST 13, 2026** Hotel Amenities:▪️48hr Cancellation Policy▪️Free Hot Breakfast▪️Free Parking▪️Non-Smoking Rooms▪️Indoor Pool▪️Pet -Friendly Rooms Visit the Hampton Inn &amp; Suites Olympia Lacey websites for more details.

Hampton Inn & Suites Olympia Lacey

2101 Henderson Park Ln SE, Olympia, WA 98501, USA(360) 236-9934Distance from Venue: 11-14 minutes(est. 5 miles) Jing &amp; Elijah Wedding Group Available Dates Between:SEPTEMBER 3rd - SEPTEMBER 6th<a href="https://www.hilton.com/en/book/reservation/rooms/?ctyhocn=LACOLHX&amp;arrivalDate=2026-09-03&amp;departureDate=2026-09-06&amp;groupCode=EJW&amp;room1NumAdults=1&amp;displayCurrency=USD&amp;aarpRate=" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click to Book Your Room!</a> *After clicking the link above, you'll be directed to the hotel’s website, where booking dates will automatically appear. You'll receive a 15% discount off their Best Available Rate.Rates are subject to hotel occupancy.* Details:▪️48hr Cancellation Policy▪️Free Parking▪️Non-Smoking Rooms▪️Pet-Friendly Rooms▪️On-Site Restaurant▪️WiFi Visit the Hilton Garden Inn Olympia website for more details. If you have any questions regarding hotel booking, please contact the hotel. Please provide our group name Jing &amp; Elijah or our corporate account number 2623065.

Hilton Garden Inn Olympia

Hotels

Things to Do

 We’re so grateful to have you celebrate with us,

 your presence is truly the best gift!

We&#8217;ll have QR codes for Cash App, Zelle, Venmo
as well as a card box, available for anyone who wishes to give a monetary gift.
 
Anything gifted will support our life together and the things that bring us joy: hiking, trying new restaurants, traveling, building a future home, and creating memories on future date nights.
Thank you for being part of our story.

Please check back for updates. Email notifications will be sent if any information on the website is updated.

Registry

DRESS TO CELEBRATE! 

Cocktail, Rustic, Semi-Formal, or Daytime attire is encouraged. Feel free to incorporate black or white into your outfit,but please avoid fully black or fully white ensembles. No casual wear, jeans, sneakers, flip-flops, or slippers. We also kindly request that guestsrefrain from wearing traditional Filipino attire.

Most importantly, have fun with your look! We can't wait to see everyone dressed up and ready to celebrate!

Ceremony Attire for Female Guests:

Please note that the ceremony will be held on grass. For comfort, we recommend block heels, wedges, or flats.Guests are welcome to choose footwear that best suits their style and comfort level.

J&E

RSVP IS OFFICALLY CLOSED

::UPDATES::

Guest Meal Selection

GUEST ATTIRE